Take It from Him: For Men of Standard & the Women Who Love Them
Copyright © 2011 Tremayne Moore
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Advance Praise
“Tremayne keeps it real on what’s going on in our homes, at our churches, in our relationships and on our jobs…”
- FlyeBooks Review
“Take It from Him shows there is nothing wrong with a man who shows his feelings.”
-Pastor Maurice Brailsford of The LIFE Center, Charlotte, NC
“A transparent and vulnerable read… a soul bearing read that other men can benefit from.”
-Davis Prime, Reader
“Take It from Him demystifies and exposes the depth of the male psyche at the same time.”
-Shantae A. Charles, Author of the Church Love Novel Series
Take It From Him:
For Men of Standard & the Women Who Love Them
Tremayne Moore
Published by Tremayne Moore at Smashwords
Acknowledgments
First and foremost, I give all thanks and praise to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Thank you for loving me even when I don’t love myself at times. Your love never ceases to amaze me.
To my immediate and extended family – I love all of you. A heartfelt thanks goes to all of the brothers who provided constructive feedback, who threw topics at me to write about and most importantly for being who you are, mighty men of God.
I want to extend my sincerest gratitude to the following individuals (who have sown into my life): Robert & Shantae Charles for keeping me on deadlines, editing this book, the great cover and photos, and anything else I failed to mention (you’ve done it again, and it’s all God); Cynthia Portalatín for your contributions to this book as well as proofreading this. I’m expecting your debut to be released before this year is done and the best is yet to come; so hold on! My sister and fellow author LaKia Morrison – congrats on your debut book Can You Handle My Pearls; my sister and fellow author Melodie Blackwood, congrats on your wedding, and I am waiting, patiently that is, for your sequel Finding Him! To my brother, Pastor Darrell Kelly – congratulations on your e-book Inspired to Succeed. This is just the beginning and I know your up and coming projects will encourage people to fulfill their prophetic destiny. My sister and fellow author Felicia S.W. Thomas – congrats on your book 80 Proof Lives. Your book WILL minister to young adults. To my brother and fellow author Michael Beckford – thanks for pushing me throughout the years.
I would like to extend my appreciation and love to my church home Four Oaks Community Church and to all of the ministries, church families, public and private schools, bookstores and different outlets that have supported my ministry. To the Tallahassee Authors Network (TAN) family, you are truly my brothers and sisters in writing. I still believe 2011 is the year of big moves, and I am enjoying the opportunities God has placed in front of us. I look forward to what He has prepared for all of us. To the Tallahassee Writer’s Association (TWA), I’m thankful to be part of a wonderful organization, and I thank you for speaking into my life.
If I forgot to mention you, charge it to my head and not my heart. I’m getting old – smile!
A Word of Encouragement
God has a blessing for you if you are willing to follow your dream. I encourage you to not cast away your confidence. You will never realize maximum fulfillment, if you don’t fulfill the dream He gave to you. I am a living witness to that. If He ordained you; He’ll sustain you.
Author’s Foreword
When I was given the title for this book by my editor, I didn’t have to think too hard to write poems for this book.
Speaking for myself as a man, I know the things we go through and the things we as men feel. Sometimes we try to go behind the veil and hide what we think or feel, because society says we’re not to express what we think or feel. As you read these poems, you’ll see different types of men and the things we go through that some of us don’t want to express to others. I hope light can be shed through the different types of men; so that we men can grow in godliness, and so that women can understand what we as men think of from time to time. Even if you believe we’re from Venus, I invite you to travel to the planet of our mind.
To the ladies, as you read this, understand that although we may not express our true feelings, this book will shed light on what we really feel from behind the veil of masculinity.
With that said, I pray that you open your heart to His Spirit and that you will allow Him to minister to you. Finally, I pray that you are blessed, highly favored and empowered to prosper under His hand.
For His Glory,
Tremayne Moore
Dedicated to Every Man
In Loving Memory of My Grandmother, Joyce Springer.
Table of Contents
Man #1: The Determined Man
My Freedom (Parts 1 & 2)
I Believe In Morality
My Mind On The Word
Bring It On
A Message to the Haters
If I Decided
Man #2: The Tired Man
Asking Too Much
I Must Go
Love or Leave Me Alone
My Last Cry
Never Satisfied
The Tyrant (Men’s Version)
Man #3: The Loving Man
A Father’s Love
Romantic
All Seasons
Dreaming Of You
Everything to Me
One Step Forward (Parts 1 & 2)
T.D.S. (The Daydreaming Syndrome)
True Definition
Remembering Andrea
What You Mean To Me
You Are
Man #4: The Deviant Man
Broken Ones
He Has No One
Mrs. Norton
Flocking To My Feet
The Devil
The Sanctity of Life (Part 2)
To Please You
When I See You
Man #5: The Troubled Man
Men Showing Emotions (a lesson)
All by Myself
I Admit That I Was Wrong
I Wish
It’s My Fault (Parts 1 – 3)
My Treasure (Parts 1 & 2)
Separate Ways
Shacking
Where Did I Go Wrong
Why Should You Care?
Man #6: The Concerned Man
Deployment
Fragile Hearts
Brother to Brother (How Dare You)
My Forgive Me List (Part 2)
The Single Father’s Spirit (What about Us)
What Went Wrong?
Where’s Love?
Who Said?
Man #7: The Real Man
Wait On Me
I Am
About The Author
Man #1:
The Determined Man
My Freedom (Parts 1 & 2)
Part 1 – This Is Who I Am
Don’t think I’m conceited when I say what I’m about to say
This is a new day for me; I’m going to walk in my freedom today
When I live out my beliefs, my enemies have to hold their peace
Don’t get me wrong, troubles in this world today will not cease
I ask that you give me credit for trying to live what I believe
I’d rather be buried than to hang with someone who lives to deceive
This is who I am, a man who’s striving to live right
Don’t take this out of context; yes, I’m waging the good fight
I refuse to bow down to another man; no man is worth bowing down to
But give up my life for a righteous cause? Now that I’ll gladly do
I can’t afford to be double-minded, unstable in my ways
I need to redeem my time on earth, counting down these evil days
I don’t want you to think I’m saying, “Either love me or leave me,”
That’s not being fair to you, and that will give you cause to deceive me
This is who I am: a man who’s forgiven and glad that he’s free to fly
Don’t keep me bottled up; I’m ready to spread my wings and kiss the sky
I love you with all my heart, and I hope you understood that succinctly
But just in case you didn’t, I want you to know that I love you distinctly
I refuse to be a hypocrite; then what meaning will my life have for you?
I would be a fraud, a perpetrator, and I should burn in hell with them, too
Whatever this world throws at me, I’ll accept; I want to live my life being real with you
Maybe that’s asking too much, but I know in the end WHO I answer to
This is who I am: a man who’s going somewhere to bless somebody else
If I’ve been set free, why should I keep this confidence and my freedom to myself?
Part 2 – The Punishment
Whom the Son sets free is free indeed
I feel like a flower in a garden, knowing I have to live around weeds
The weeds are trying to punish me, and I have to stand strong
I need to be prepared to fight for my freedom, all the day long
If I’m speaking health, but not walking it, my eloquent words are in vain
And that’s probably why my body’s going through so much pain
I’m truly free, so don’t punish me with your temptations
I have a job to do for His Kingdom; He’s sending me to the nations
I see my past in the rearview mirror, and now I’m trying to witness to you
But I used to think I had to be all things to all men; so I’d do what you’d do
Now that I’ve changed, I refuse to punish my body like I used to
So don’t con me, and don’t try; I don’t know what will get through to you
If I continue to hang around you, I’ll fall into the trap you have set before me
I know my spirit is willing, and my flesh is weak; this is the fight I currently see
But I’m truly free, and I’m going to fight the faith fight till the end
I’m going to walk in freedom and in health; with or without you as my friend.
I see so many people punishing their bodies while proclaiming their Christian liberty
But a line has to be drawn, be tempted and suffer punishment, or be truly free
I choose life, and I will speak life and live life until I’m called home to glory
I understand most diseases are due to punished bodies, I want my life to tell a story
The story is that I live what I believe and refuse to compromise what I believe
This is who I am, and I pray that if we choose health, His blessings we’ll receive
I’m truly free, and I’m going to live the life I’m supposed to live
I’ve got so much Word to spread to the world and love for this dying world to give.
I Believe In Morality
I met a woman at a restaurant, and she was college-aged
Her spirit was lovely, but her flesh was full of rage
It was like watching a lion want to roar, but she didn’t have a chance
She was all about having fun without looking for romance
She was my waitress this evening, and I was curious about her aspirations
I asked, “What do you want to do?” and she said with a hesitation
“I want to move down South and be a topless dancer at a men’s establishment!”
I was taken back by that, but I decided to add my two cents
I said, “You have so much to offer than your body in this life,”
“These men just want their desires fulfilled,
to make you a harlot not a wife,”
She said, “Another guy said he’d pay me if I kept my clothes on.”
I said to myself, “Praise God,” but I sensed she was head-strong
I challenged her and asked, “Do you know what your self-worth is?”
She said, “Yes. I see you both are reaching out to me, and I cherish this.”
I told her that women are more attractive on the inside than out
I believe in morality, and this is what I’m all about
My Mind on the Word
I’ve got to keep my mind on the Word and the Word on my mind
If not, I’ll find that my past will keep my life in a spiritual bind
Some of us men, mighty men of valor, had baggage before knowing Christ
We need to leave it with Him, for His grace alone will suffice
Christ took that weight of sin when He went to the cross
We need to drop the baggage at the altar, leave the land of spiritually lost
Some of us did, got saved, and could take the world by storm
We prayed, fasted, and preached boldly, and to some folks, that’s not the norm
It’s always women in church, and we have to be taught by them
It’s not about us, or them, it’s all about keeping our minds focused on Him
Back to the lesson, some of us don’t deal with the issues at hand
The past still calls and it knocks you down hard like a garbage can
We don’t deal with them until we look them in the face
By that time, the past becomes difficult to erase
It’s not hard to keep our mind on the Word of the Lord
And the enemy knows that’s something he can’t afford
To see a man with a renewed mind, and focused on Jesus
The devil knows that’s the only name that frees us
From his snares and slavery, so we can be as free as the wind
But all we have to do is keep our minds at all times on that Word and maintain the victory over sin
Bring It On
(Inspired by “D” Poetic Preacha’s Bring It On)
I know living this life can be hard at times
But you’ve got to be brave even if standing for Christ is a crime
There will be times in your life where you will have to stand alone
And every demon in hell will think that God is nowhere to be found on His throne
This is not the time to entertain the devil
He’s just a hindrance, keeping you from your life’s next level
Remember, when you think that you won’t last
Remind that fool of his future when he brings up your past
There’s no way, no how, that I will be defeated
Now you can say I’m arrogant or overly conceited
But when you move in Jesus Christ, you really shouldn’t care
What others think about you, for the Savior’s always there
So devil, bring it on, if you really want to fight me,
My foot is on your neck - you don’t want this Holy Lightning
I stand for Jesus Christ, so do what you have to do
After all, you were created, lost your purpose-shame on you!
Take your whining, complaining, and accusing to the throne
God will see you sent from heaven with the blood, screaming Jesus
Bring it on; bring it on, BRING IT ON!
A Message to the Haters
What’s this I see? Oh, it’s that hating spirit around me
I thought it was a party, but javelins and darts surround me
It’s coming from both my true enemies and fake friends of mine
I knew they were scheming, just a total waste of time
I love my brothers and sisters dearly, and I will always be true to them all
Nothing will come between us, and if one falls, I’ll remind them of their call
Why do they hate me? Because I’m true to my alliance
So they’re trying another scheme, to see if I’m acting in total defiance
These haters can try to rip me apart
But they won’t succeed, for Christ will always be in my heart.
When my ways please God, enemies will be at peace with me
I’m going to praise Him right now, even through this adversity
There’s a saying that he who laughs last, laughs best
Bring the hate on, it’s all good, I’m going to pass this test
If I can’t be who I am, I won’t be fake for you or anyone else
Now don’t get mad at me; you brought this on yourself
You can say I need counseling, and I’m schizophrenic too
My life isn’t predicated on what you say and what you do
Yes, I’m a converted introvert; so don’t try to change me
Accept me for me, and let me be who God says I’ll be
Why do you envy the gifts and talents that have been bestowed upon me?
You act like you’re for me, but deep inside, you’re full of jealousy
So I say, “Keep on hating. I’d rather you tell the truth than tell me a lie
But no matter what, it’s in Christ I live and in Christ I die.”
If I Decided
If I decided to stand for holiness, would you
Say I’m intolerant?
Say I’m narrow-minded?
Stand with me?
If I decided to end my life right now, would you
Pray for me?
Speak life to me?
Pound me down and say it’s my fault, and I deserve it?
Rejoice because I hurt you too many times?
Say my life doesn’t mean anything to you?
To my sisters:
If I decided to stand up for what I believe, would you
Emasculate me and say I don’t know anything?
Take my job, my possessions?
Say you need someone that you can control?
Embrace this man of God who’s trying to live right?
If I decided to treat you like royalty, would you
Declare you don’t deserve me or vice versa?
Accept me to convert me into what you want?
Find a way to use me?
Trample over me like a trifling ex?
To everyone:
If I decided to make a stand for Jesus Christ, would you
Spit on me?
Have me killed?
Say that I should die in the name of Allah?
Rejoice with me?
Support my cause?
Stand with me?
Good thing I’ve already made up my mind.
Man #2
The Tired Man
Asking Too Much
Through the course of my life, I see multiple events
And I wonder is my time on this earth well spent?
I try to be a friend to everyone I meet
If I could keep everyone in my life, that would be neat
I realize that I can’t; some people are for a season
I won’t argue or complain if you’re in my world for only one reason
to take advantage, to use me, whatever the case may be
I refuse to let it bring me down because Christ has set me free
If I had a wish, it would be that people respect each other
Not stab each other in the back, but to love one another
If I could spend time with you alone, there’d be no doubt about it
But it seems interruptions take precedence, and I have no right to protest about it
I’m insignificant, unimportant, and the interrupter is in the right
I have no right to complain, and no right to fuss or to want to fight
So you and the interrupter carry on as if I don’t exist
And the thoughts of anger and rage are sometimes hard to resist
Oh yes, forgive me if I interrupt the conversation of someone else
For I’m considered selfish, and I’m only thinking about myself
Am I asking too much if I be truthful and direct?
Am I asking too much if I treat you with respect?
Am I asking too much if I try to be a good friend to you?
Am I asking too much if I strive to be faithful in all I say and do?
Maybe I am; that’s probably why I’m treated this way
But I must go on with or regretfully without you, and I stand on this truth today!
I Must Go
I can’t stand the thought of hurting you much longer
But every time I’m near you, my love for you grows stronger
When I say I’m hurting you, I’m talking about the words I speak
I’m not cursing or belittling you, it’s something petty that makes me weak
You’re much too special for me to treat you like this
You know I love you, and it’s your friendship I’ll truly miss
It hurts deep inside; this pain is hard to bear
Each day that I live ends up a nightmare
I may be talking perpendicular, but please hear my heart
I don’t want to hurt another person, and rip their spirit apart
When I said I love you, I meant it; what do I have to do to show it?
Do I need to lay down my life for you? I’m serious, and I hope you know it
This is why I feel that I must go
What am I going to do? I don’t know
I miss your voice and knowing that you love me for me
But I know I’m not perfect, and I sense your need to be free
I wish I had more control over my tongue, but my sin is ever before me
You are everything to me, and I know deep inside you still adore me